There are so many strategies singles use when looking for their potential mate. They may have requirements, deal breakers, chemistry, personality, height and weight restrictions, even geography (lives close to you). Many singles think of many of these things as they are speed dating, blind dating, or simply checking out other singles at a singles mingle. But what about destination?
Destination? What Do You Mean?
Where are you going in life? What is your ultimate destination? After all, if you don’t know where you are going in life, how do you know if your potential mate is going the same way? Part of REALLY knowing yourself is knowing what you want out of life; knowing your purpose and/or what you are most passionate about; knowing the end game plan; where you want to end-up. If you don’t know, you may have already experienced a relationship or dating scenario where you thought things were lining up nicely (good chemistry, good personality, no red flags) only to break-up in the end because you didn’t realize the other person was heading a completely different direction in life. They had a completely different end game plan.
Your Internal GPS
Awareness is the first step to remedy this loophole in your ‘ironclad’ singles strategy. You see, we cannot address things that we are not aware of. Now that you are aware of its’ importance, do you know your end game plan? Consider your vision of the life you want to create for yourself. Where are you at? What are you doing? What kind of person are you doing it with? What does life feel like there? What does it look like, smell like, taste like, sound like? Write it down! Write the story of your vision for your life with all of the senses. Be as descriptive as you can. Holding the vision in your head is not good enough. Honor your vision with the written word. Writing it down makes it more real; more clear; more likely to be manifested! After all, you wouldn’t get in your car with your GPS system and assume it would just know where you wanted to go. You need to program it into the system. Now, your GPS will take you there in the most direct route possible.
Knowing your end game plan is not enough. Programming it into your internal GPS system by recording it in written word will bring you there faster than you ever thought. And, while you are on the way there, perhaps you might find your mate? After all, you’ll be going the same way, right?